Jean Malcolm is 76 and has been volunteering for Re-engage in Scotland for 18 years.

To mark International Day of Older People 2024, we're sharing Jean's story of volunteering to highlight the contributions many people continue to make to their communities in later life.

“It’s absolutely marvellous,” Jean said. “There’s nothing like it. I have never regretted doing it for one moment.

“The older people who come to our tea parties absolutely love them. They say it makes them feel valued. And the volunteers, who are all fantastic, learn about all the amazing things the guests have done in their lives. It’s all quite brilliant.”

Jean, who is Angus area organiser, started the tea party group in Brechin in 2006 with the help of Irene Heron, who now coordinates the groups. Drivers Anne Thomson and Nolene Hume joined in as did Jean’s husband, Graham. There were only two guests at the first gathering – Mary Alexander and Wullie Milne – so Joan Grant, who was then one of our regional development officers, took her mum along. 

And from those humble beginnings, the Angus area now has 13 tea party groups with around 130 guests. 

Jean’s late mother-in-law, Gabrielle Malcolm, became one of the first tea party hosts after hearing about the charity when founder, Trevor Lyttleton went to a dinner in Renfrewshire and spread the word. Some years later, Jean spotted an advert for volunteers in a newspaper and got in touch. 

During the early days, Jean searched far and wide to find older people who wanted to enjoy a social event in Brechin. Now, there are two groups in the town plus others in Forfar, Kirriemuir, Laurencekirk, Mearns, Montrose, Carnoustie and Carmylie. 

The group coordinators keep Jean up to date with events and she  occasionally hosts when needed and constantly strives to find sources of funding for special celebrations. She also maintains links with community groups, schools, churches and even the Royal Marine Commandos who have hosted tea parties. 

Jean sometimes finds it challenging to source new volunteers, but she explained: “By and large new guests just appear as there is no shortage of lonely older people. 

“I've made good friends, met so many interesting people and seen the difference the charity has made to our guests and our volunteers,” she said. “I always tell new drivers they will hear someone say - 'you have no idea the difference this has made to me'. It’s the most common comment and absolutely true.  

“I would recommend volunteering with us, not just to help older people but yourself. The teas are full of laughter and you too will make friends.”